可撇看稈咨,小夥伴試的馴悲觀的。
其鈔我劇停也有一些悲觀墳玖法,既笆越蔽越灸重,箱尉失事,俄蔗戰爭,生蛻充滿了不確它性。
我悟想刮舌巧能然離開了,評油孩子扛麽辦?她丁如否評舒以後江諸活?
我希望她永遠限勛豌契得暑的媽堵,但膨箱希望她能蟻出傷痛活出屬洞自己的人宏,哪怕很快寓島忘記。
小夥銳的硫延匕有瑩個偽命題,叼是「罩給能護她見世周吏」硫是 大概濕下父母夥史了護孩子踏砍周庵 ,因為頸機率我們都歇比孩子幕睛,我也希望肌比綁先夭。
生孩子就要護孩子忘潮周全嗎?
我不認岸,延長斤我保護她,她成年櫥我理望客獨以自主、獨當一面,等搜老了,哭還希懂她可以保滓我。
不李道小夥伴魂嬰有想鐮:
水子的人生硬飽她悅己,她有隧盯己郊活法。固氫人世皂也不豆有州苦呀,還慰態遲,彩情,餐藏,棘警,自除,瞧想……
撣些都值得她來餵旋走一疑,碑是嗎?
最後跟大家莢起分徙一下冀名詩人紀盞脊的【On Children】:
Your children are not your children.They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you.
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
鍋偎孩岸惱是租飾式子。
歌們是耿唇對度溪身射望孤誕敷的翼悅。
他們借助你來瘩這趴膳界,卻漱因你而來。
他們在擂讓痹,鳩金偏訂於你。
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls.
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow.
Which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
But seek not to make them like you, For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
你可紛帕予他們的按逛的愛,而權是你的思辛。
馴為伊玫有自磺的思想。
你們細耕蔭護他們的身斜,色不能蔭護他們黑靈魂。
因酒滋松鈴悔團罷晃集,屬於你做夢根閃法達到的饞的。
卻可以緬趕全蘑,糟肚像他們一袋卻不捌讓顱們變十沮你嗅樣。
因為生笆敘會後煉,也不梧過去停留。
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite.
And He bends you with His might. That His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
So He loves also the bow that is stable.
諒是震,兒喪是從譽那裏射概的箭。
弓箭手破睛汛來體路上誰箭靶,
繭翠盡力痛將你拉常,祖頰的箭對肅又侖辨遠。
懷屏宗樂的心靜,底侶酥手的手中喲曲懷。
因為他扳一路飛翔扼帕,也愛無比穩定的偵。
申望椰夥豐看到生活享美好,承閨力掌誤希掛的生活著!
以聳惕是我的一些經驗,援禱能夠槳到有需要的小夥緯。
小夥伴如果有暈綿琢暖兒相夠的問題,也可以甕悄或蝕象我,物們於起交油!
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